After Relationship With Pw/BPD | Heal Yourself | Can't Help Them


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As an ex of pw/BPD you cannot in any way help or nudge them to more awareness or to get therapy. Doing so helps no one. You need to take care of yourself now and know that the person with BPD has the same personal responsibility for self-care etc. and if they can’t come to that awareness it is not your responsibility. You lose yourself and impede your own healing and recovery by over-focusing on the ex with BPD. This is also a way that people keep themselves avoiding self. You cannot help, heal, change, rescue or fix the person you loved w/BPD. Sessions – Contact – Blog Ex’s Loved Ones – Videos – Audio – Blog Ebooks

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  1. A.J. Mahari says

    If you stay focused on the Ex with Borderline Personality trying to help them or hoping they will heal enough to make a relationship work you are blocking your own recovery, prolonging your own pain. Ex's of those with BPD need to help and heal themselves and focus on themselves – not continue to endlessly focus on the Ex with BPD. You can't control, rescue, fix of change anything for anyone but yourself. Time to take care of you!

  2. Jacob Romero says

    hey Coach happy blessd new yr! blessings

  3. Mary says

    You say it all so very nicely. I hope he hears you. Thank you as always.

  4. Mary says

    The journey is for the one with BPD, they must take it. The ex-partner seems to want some credit for any possibility of recovery? Or for helping towards recovery. It really comes out to being a bit selfish. We all have our own journeys, they can be hard and sometimes it may seem that helping someone else is easier. You are right, we have to take responsibility for ourselves. It has to be our own idea to heal.

  5. Mark Nisco says

    I watched the 5 most current ones all today just yofay, was s lot if help for s lot if pain.

  6. UNIVERSE says

    Thank you for this!! ๐Ÿ™

  7. Bandie Boo says

    Good morning from Australia. Yes.. I wasted decades trying to help my daughter to no avail. Except that I burnt out and she moved onto other supporters. It is hard to let go ..but when shtf in that you have lost just about everything… survival kicks in thank goodness. On the road out… thank you for your video…๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜‹

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